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1 Romilla ReadyRelationship coach and trainerKate BurtonNLP coachLearn to: Take control of your life and pinpoint your goals Understand the power of communication Create rapport with ease Make real-life changes and achieve successNeuro- linguistic Programming2nd EditionMaking Everything Easier! Open the book and find: The twelve NLP assumptions and what they mean for you How to create a formula for success Tips on becoming a more confident presenter and communicator Techniques for making and breaking rapport with other people How to grow from past experiences Ways to drive your habits in the right direction Advice on how to ask the right questions Recommended resources to take your learning furtherRomilla Ready is an NLP Master Practitioner and the architect of Relationship Wizardry in Business , a programme of training and coaching for business executives.

2 Kate Burton is a leading international executive coach with a background in corporate communication in IT, and works with clients such as HP, KPMG, and Microsoft. Romilla and Kate are the authors of the best-selling Neuro- linguistic Programming Workbook For Dummies. UK / $ US / $ CNISBN 978-0-470-66543-5 Popular PsychologyGo to for videos, step-by-step examples, how-to articles, or to shop!Tu r n p o s i t i ve t h o u g h t sinto positive actionNeuro- linguistic Programming (NLP) provides essential building blocks for discovering how people think and manage their emotional states. This practical guide shows you how to unwrap core NLP skills such as rapport-building and mirroring techniques, and enables you to use them to achieve personal and professional fulfilment. So whether you want to build your self-confidence, communicate effectively, or make life-changing decisions, this book gives you the tools you need to succeed.

3 Unlock the essentials discover the strength of NLP techniques and find out how to make them work for you Make friends and influence people discover how to push people s buttons and get the most out of rapport-building techniques Open your NLP toolkit unravel your subconscious and re-programme negative associations and habits Talk the talk maximise the power of language and become a hypnotic communicator Integrate your learning discover how to make the changes that make a difference Neuro- linguistic ProgrammingReadyBurton2nd Editionspine = = AppsThere s a Dummies App for This and ThatWith more than 200 million books in print and over 1,600 unique titles, Dummies is a global leader in how-to information. Now you can get the same great Dummies information in an App. With topics such as Wine, Spanish, Digital Photography, Certification, and more, you ll have instant access to the topics you need to know in a format you can get information on all our Dummies apps, visit the from your from your with FREE Cheat SheetsCheat Sheets include Checklists Charts Common Instructions And Other Good Stuff!

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8 Some content that appears in print may not be available in electronic Library Cataloguing in Publication Data: A catalogue record for this book is available from the British LibraryISBN 978-0-470-66543-5 (hardback), ISBN 978-0-470-66610-4 (ebk),ISBN 978-0-470-66609-8 (ebk), ISBN 978-0-470-97843-6 Printed and bound in Great Britain by Bell and Bain Ltd, Glasgow10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 iv8/18/10 10:12 PM8/18/10 10:12 PMAbout the AuthorsRomilla Ready is the creator and architect of Relationship Wizardry , her own brand of training and coaching, which combines the two potent technologies of Neuro- linguistic Programming and Huna (the ancient knowledge from Hawai i). Relationship Wizardry evolved from the realisation that the common denominator in any interaction, be it one that causes distress or one that gives pleasure, is people and the way they think and communicate.

9 Her product offerings are: Relationship Wizardry , which is aimed at people (usually singletons) who want to create their perfect relationship. Relationship Wizardry in Business, which helps companies build profi table stakeholder relationships through improved employee and customer engagement as well as through enhanced salesmanship. Relationship Wizardry Coaching, which enables time paupers to experience fast, powerful, life-enhancing results in their personal and business lives. Applied NLP for Business Results networking events, where business owners discover how to apply NLP to create the specifi c results they want for their has worked in high-stress, customer-facing environments for multi-national companies and across cultural boundaries, has provided training in the UK, Europe, and Africa, and is the MD of her company, Ready Solutions Ltd.

10 Kate Burton is an international NLP master coach, author, and workshop leader who challenges individuals and organisations to create successful lives that are sustainable and fun. Her business career began in corporate advertising and marketing with Hewlett-Packard. Since then she has worked with varied businesses across industries and cultures on how they can be great communicators. What Kate loves most is delivering custom-built coaching programmes. She thrives on supporting people in boosting their motivation, self-awareness, and confi dence. Her belief is that people all have unique talents, abilities, and core values. The skill is about honouring them to the full. In addition to co-authoring Neuro- linguistic Programming For Dummies and the Neuro- linguistic Programming Workbook For Dummies with Romilla, Kate co-authored Building Self-Confi dence For Dummies with Brinley Platts.