The Sacrament Of Confession - Orthodox

1 The Sacrament Of Confession Items from St Nicholas Orthodox Church McKinney Texas FOR Confession .. 3 Prayer before 3 Of St. Symeon the New Theologian .. 3 A Preparation for 4 by St. John of 4 Preparation for Confession .. 6 Preparation for Confession .. 9 From the Vision of Blessed Theodora .. 9 A LIST OF THE PASSIONS .. 15 by Saint Peter of Damaskos .. 15 EXAMPLES OF CONFESSIONS .. 18 A Lament for Sin .. 18 St. Basil the Great .. 18 A Brief Confession before One's Spiritual Father .. 21 From the Full Confession of St. Demetrius of 21 BRIEF Confession BEFORE A SPIRITUAL FATHER .. 22 Compiled by the late Archbishop Tikhon of San Francisco.. 22 Based on a longer version by St Dimitry of Rostov.

2 22 A sincere Confession of an Orthodox Christian .. 23 AN Orthodox Confession WHICH LEADS THE INWARD MAN TO 29 From "The Way of a Pilgrim".. 29 ABOUT 32 What Is Necessary for a Saving Confession ? .. 32 by Metropolitan Innocent of 32 A Catechism on 35 The relationship between Confession and Communion .. 39 LESSONS FROM THE FATHERS - On Confession of One's Sins .. 41 Page 3 of 46 PREPARING FOR Confession Prayer before Confession Of St. Symeon the New Theologian O God and Lord of all! Who hath the power over every breath and soul, the only One able to heal me, hearken unto the prayer of me, the wretched one, and, having put him to death, destroy the serpent nestling within me by the decent of the All-Holy and Life-Creating Spirit.

3 And vouchsafe me, poor and naked of all virtue, to fall with tears at the feet of my spiritual father, and call his holy soul to mercy, to have mercy on me. And grant, O Lord, unto my heart humility and good thoughts, becoming a sinner, who hath consented to repent unto Thee, and do not abandon unto the end the one soul, which hath united itself unto Thee and hath confessed Thee, and instead of all the world hath chosen Thee and hath preferred Thee. For Thou knowest, O Lord, that I want to save myself, and that my evil habit is an obstacle. But all things are possible unto Thee, O Master, which are impossible for man. Amen. Translated from the Russian by Priest Viatcheslav Davidenko Page 4 of 46 A Preparation for Confession by St.

4 John of Kronstadt I, a sinful soul, confess to our Lord God and Savior Jesus Christ, all of my evil acts which I have done, said or thought from baptism even unto this present day. I have not kept the vows of my baptism, but have made myself unwanted before the face of God. I have sinned before the Lord by lack of faith and by doubts concerning the Orthodox Faith and the Holy Church; by ungratefulness for all of God's great and unceasing gifts; His long-suffering and His providence for me, a sinner; by lack of love for the Lord, as well as fear, through not fulfilling the Holy Commandments of God and the canons and rules of the Church. I have not preserved a love for God and for my neighbor nor have I made enough efforts, because of laziness and lack of care, to learn the Commandments of God and the precepts of the Holy Fathers.

5 I have sinned: by not praying in the morning and in the evening and in the course of the day; by not attending the services or by coming to Church only half-heartedly, lazily and carelessly; by conversing during the services, by not paying attention, letting my mind wander and by departure from the Church before the dismissal and blessing. I have sinned by judging members of the clergy. I have sinned by not respecting the Feasts, breaking the Fasts, and by immoderation in food and drink. I have sinned by self-importance, disobedience, willfulness, self-righteousness, and the seeking of approval and praise. I have sinned by unbelief, lack of faith, doubts, despair, despondency, abusive thoughts, blasphemy and swearing.

6 I have sinned by pride, a high opinion of my self, narcissism, vanity, conceit, envy, love of praise, love of honors, and by putting on airs. I have sinned: by judging, malicious gossip, anger, remembering of offenses done to me, hatred and returning evil for evil; by slander, reproaches, lies, slyness, deception and hypocrisy; by prejudices, arguments, stubbornness, and an unwillingness to give way to my neighbor; by gloating, spitefulness, taunting, insults and mocking; by gossip, by speaking too much and by empty speech. Page 5 of 46 I have sinned by unnecessary and excessive laughter, by reviling and dwelling upon my previous sins, by arrogant behavior, insolence and lack of respect.

7 I have sinned by not keeping my physical and spiritual passions in check, by my enjoyment of impure thoughts, licentiousness and unchastity in thoughts, words and deeds. I have sinned by lack of endurance towards my illnesses and sorrows, a devotion to the comforts of life and by being too attached to my parents, children, relatives and friends. I have sinned by hardening my heart, having a weak will and by not forcing myself to do good. I have sinned by miserliness, a love of money, the acquisition of unnecessary things and immoderate attachment to things. I have sinned by self-justification, a disregard for the admonitions of my conscience and failing to confess my sins through negligence or false pride.

8 I have sinned many times by my Confession : belittling, justifying and keeping silent about sins. I have sinned against the Most-holy and Life-creating Mysteries of the Body and Blood of our Lord by coming to Holy Communion without humility or the fear of God. I have sinned in deed, word and thought, knowingly and unknowingly, willingly and unwillingly, thoughtfully and thoughtlessly, and it is impossible to enumerate all of my sins because of their multitude. But I truly repent of these and all others not mentioned by me because of my forgetfulness and I ask that they be forgiven through the abundance of the Mercy of God. Page 6 of 46 Preparation for Confession Here are some aids in preparing for her Confession and I found in my files the following which I have given to parishioners at times to help them prepare.

9 This comes from no single source but is drawn from a number of places. THE TEN COMMANDMENTS 1. Thou shalt have no other gods before Me. 2. Thou shalt not make any graven image, or bow down before any 3. creation in heaven or on earth. 4. Thou shalt not take the name of the Lord in vain. 5. Remember the Sabbath day and keep it holy. 6. Honor thy father and thy mother. 7. Thou shalt not kill. 8. Thou shalt not commit adultery. 9. Thou shalt not steal. 10. Thou shalt not bear false witness against thy neighbor. 11. Thou shalt not covet that which is thy neighbors. COMMANDMENTS OF THE CHURCH 1. To abstain for servile work on Sundays and Holy Days. 2.

10 To attend Divine Liturgy on Sundays and Holy Days. 3. To fast and to abstain on the days appointed by the Church. 4. To confess our sins and to receive the Holy Mysteries at least 5. once a year. 6. Not to solemnize marriage at forbidden times. 7. To pray to God every day, especially at morning and evening. SEVEN DEADLY SINS 1. Pride 2. Covetousness 3. Lust 4. Anger 5. Gluttony 6. Envy 7. Sloth Page 7 of 46 ACCESSORIES TO SIN By counseling, by commanding, by consenting, by provoking another to sin; by praise of flattery, by concealment, by silence, or by defending that which is wrong. QUESTIONS TO ASK YOURSELF TO PREPARE FOR Confession Have you prayed to God upon rising and before eating and sleeping?