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Treating Complex PTSD in children - Pete Walker

This article was published in and reprinted from the Sept 2009 newsletter of The products advertised in the reprint are available from that website. A copy of the article can also be purchased there. The article is an in depth expansion of the original article I wrote on this subject: Flashback Management in Complex ptsd , which is also available on this website. emotional Flashback Management in the Treatment of Complex ptsd . by pete Walker , MFT Related Resources Early in my career I worked with David,* a handsome, intelligent client who was a professional actor. One day David came to see me after an unsuccessful audition.

Because of this, emotional flashbacks can best be understood as the key symptom of Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, a syndrome afflicting many adults who experienced ongoing abuse or neglect in childhood. As described by leading trauma theorist Judith Herman (Trauma and Recovery) and renowned PTSD researcher Bessel

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1 This article was published in and reprinted from the Sept 2009 newsletter of The products advertised in the reprint are available from that website. A copy of the article can also be purchased there. The article is an in depth expansion of the original article I wrote on this subject: Flashback Management in Complex ptsd , which is also available on this website. emotional Flashback Management in the Treatment of Complex ptsd . by pete Walker , MFT Related Resources Early in my career I worked with David,* a handsome, intelligent client who was a professional actor. One day David came to see me after an unsuccessful audition.

2 Beside himself, he burst out: "I. never let on to anyone, but I know that I'm really very ugly; it's so stupid that I'm trying to be an actor when I'm so painful to look Invisible Child Abuse at." by Robert Firestone, PhD. David's childhood was characterized by emotional abuse, neglect and abandonment. The last and unwanted child of a large family, his alcoholic father repeatedly terrorized him. To make matters worse, his family frequently humiliated him by reacting to him with exaggerated looks of disgust. His older brother's favorite gibe, accompanied by a nauseated grimace, was, "I can't stand looking at you. The sight of you makes me sick!

3 " David was so Healing Childhood Abuse and traumatized by the contempt with which his family had treated him that he was easily Trauma through Psychodram triggered by anything but the most benign expression on my face. If he came into by Tian Dayton, PhD, TEP. session already triggered, he would often project disgust onto me, no matter how much genuine goodwill and regard I felt for him at the time. David was so traumatized by the contempt with which his family had treated him that he was easily triggered by anything but the most benign expression on my face. I have come to call these reactions, typical of David and of many other clients over the Explaining ptsd & The Counti Method: Essential Tools for years, emotional flashbacks sudden and often prolonged regressions ("amygdala Mental Health Professionals hijackings") to the frightening and abandoned feeling-states of childhood.

4 They are by Frank Ochberg, MD, Angie Pan accompanied by inappropriate and intense arousal of the fight/flight instinct and the PhD. sympathetic nervous system. Typically, they manifest as intense and confusing episodes of fear, toxic shame, and/or despair, which often beget angry reactions against the self or others. When fear is the dominant emotion in an emotional flashback, the individual feels overwhelmed, panicky or even suicidal. When despair Lisa Firestone predominates, it creates a sense of profound numbness, paralysis and an urgent need to hide. Feeling small, young, fragile, powerless and helpless is also common in emotional flashbacks.

5 Such experiences are typically overlaid with toxic shame, which, as described in John Bradshaw's Healing The Shame That Binds, obliterates an individual's self-esteem with an overpowering sense that she is as worthless, stupid, contemptible or fatally flawed, as she was viewed by her original caregivers. Toxic shame inhibits the individual from seeking comfort and support, and in a reenactment of the childhood abandonment she is flashing back to, isolates her in an overwhelming and humiliating sense of defectiveness. Clients who view themselves as worthless, defective, ugly or despicable are showing signs of being lost in an emotional flashback.

6 When stuck in this state, they often polarize affectively into intense self-hate and self- disgust, and cognitively into extreme and virulent self-criticism. Numerous clients tell me that the concept of an emotional flashback brings them a great sense of relief. They report that for the first time they are able to make some sense of their extremely troubled lives. Some get that their addictions are misguided attempts to self-medicate. Some understand the inefficacy of the myriad psychological and spiritual answers they pursued, and are in turn feel liberated from a shaming plethora of misdiagnoses. Some can now frame their extreme episodes of risk taking and self-destructiveness as desperate attempts to distract themselves from their pain.

7 Many experience hope that they can rid themselves of the habit of amassing evidence of defectiveness or craziness. Many report a budding recognition that they can challenge the self-hate and self-disgust that typically thwarts their progress in therapy. emotional neglect : A Primary Cause of Complex ptsd ? Early on in working with this model, I was surprised that a number of clients with moderate and sometimes minimal sexual or physical childhood abuse were plagued by emotional flashbacks. Over time, however, I realized that these individuals had suffered extreme emotional neglect : the kind of neglect where no caretaker was ever available for support, comfort or protection.

8 No one liked them, welcomed them, or listened to them. No one had empathy for them, showed them warmth, or invited closeness. No one cared about what they thought, felt, did, wanted, or dreamed of. Such trauma victims learned early in life that no matter how hurt, alienated, or terrified they were, turning to a parent would actually exacerbate their experience of rejection. The child who is abandoned in this way experiences the world as a terrifying place. I. think about how humans were hunter-gatherers for most of our time on this planet . the child's survival and safety from predators during the first six years of life during these times depended on being in very close proximity to an adult.

9 children are wired to feel scared when left alone, and to cry and protest to alert their caretakers when they are. But when the caretakers turn their backs on such cries for help, the child is left to cope with a nightmarish inner world the stuff of which emotional flashbacks are made. Because of this, emotional flashbacks can best be understood as the key symptom of Complex post - traumatic stress Disorder, a syndrome afflicting many adults who experienced ongoing abuse or neglect in childhood. As described by leading trauma theorist Judith Herman (Trauma and Recovery) and renowned ptsd researcher Bessel van der Kolk, Complex ptsd is caused by "prolonged, repeated trauma" and "a history of subjection to totalitarian control" such as happens in extremely dysfunctional families.

10 It is distinguished from the more familiar type of ptsd in which the trauma is specific and defined; because of the prolonged nature of the trauma, Complex ptsd . can be even more virulent and pervasively damaging in its effects. ( Complex ptsd has not yet been included in the DSM.). emotional flashbacks can best be understood as the key symptom of Complex post - traumatic stress Disorder, a syndrome afflicting many adults who experienced ongoing abuse or neglect in childhood. Ongoing experience convinces me that some children respond to pervasive emotional neglect and abandonment by over-identifying or even merging their identity with the inner critic and adopting an intense form of perfectionism that triggers them into painful abandonment flashbacks every time they are less than perfect or perfectly pleasing.


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