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1 get in her mind GET IN HER BED Taylor Ryan Nick Andrews get in her mind , Get In Her Bed Email: Nick Andrews: Taylor Ryan: Director of Marketing: Gary Nickelson Vice President of Operations: Ryan Lambert Copyright 2008 by Brownfish Publishing All rights reserved. ISBN 978-0-9816100-0-9 LCCN 2008929162 Printed in the United States of America iii Acknowledgements Nick: This is for all the girls I was too scared to ever make a move on. Taylor: And for all the girls I did make a move on. v Contents Introduction to Body Language Eye Contact 1 The Alpha Male 9 Proximity: Moving Between the Zones 27 YES/NO: Picking Up On Her Signals 41 PUSH and PULL 55 The Pick Up Approach and Open 75 The Art of Conversation 91 ABCs of Closing 105 Rejection 119 NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) What Is It?

2 129 Processing 133 Mirroring 141 Anchoring 149 10 Tips 1 First Dates 161 2 Creative Places to Meet Women 167 3 Day Game 171 4 Date Warp 175 5 Style 179 6 Cold Reading 189 7 Quick Date Dinners 203 8 Easy Magic and Bar Tricks 209 9 Drink Recipes 215 10 Drinking Games 221 Introduction to Body Language 1 Eye Contact On my move across the country, I had an amazing en-counter, at a rest stop no less, and it all started with a little glance.

3 As I was coming out of the bathroom, I saw a girl sitting in a van. She was in the driver s seat, the passenger seat was empty, and two children were in the back. When I walked by her vehicle I glanced in her di-rection and saw her looking at me. I looked back and continued to hold eye contact. She held eye contact as well, and gave me a little smile. As I drove off she looked at me again. Now I was thinking that was kind of inter-esting and what a weird place for this to happen. A while down the road she passed me and I realized it was her mother that she was waiting for. At this point I was pissed at myself for letting this opportunity go.

4 I de-cided I was going to redeem myself. Being that there were two women and two little children in the car I knew it wouldn't be long until they made another stop. Sure enough about ten miles down the road they pulled off at get in her mind , Get In Her Bed 2 the next rest area; I followed. When I got out, I was again met with her adoring eyes. I asked her, "Are you following me?" She laughed and we started talking. Within a few minutes I found out that she was actually staying at a campground nearby. Under normal cir-cumstances I would have continued driving for at least another eight hours, but I wasn't going to pass this up.

5 I was actually curious to see how far I could take things with her. I followed them to their campsite, ate hot dogs with her and her family, and we ended up spending most of the night together. As for my curiosity, I was rewarded. It took most of the tools in my pick up skill set, but like many girls before, she too ended up in my bed. It all started with a little look. The single most important aspect of being good with women, picking up girls, is eye contact. The con-cepts you will learn in this book all center around eye contact and the signals women give.

6 Why is eye contact so important? It is how we know a woman is interested. Anything and everything you do in interacting with women is directly related to body language and eye con-tact. Eye contact with any woman will tell you every-thing you need to know. All body language is important, but eye contact and maybe a little smile will tell you what you really want to know. It tells you, I m interested in you and I m available. In the game of pick up that s all you really need to know. Now of course, you will use body lan-guage to do a variety of things: get her interested in you, create and continue to build sexual chemistry, skew an interaction in your favor to get what you want, all done with body language, but her eyes are what are telling Introduction to Body Language: Eye Contact 3 you, I m interested and I m available.

7 If you want to be good with women, this is the foundation to build your game upon. Situation: You are terrible with women. You are standing around a bar table with a couple of friends when you noticed a hot ass girl across the room. I mean gorgeous. She walks up to you and says, "There is something about you, I'm not sure what it is but I'd really like to get to know you. I m not dating anyone at the moment. Would you like to go someplace quiet and get to know each other?" You go off in the corner with your future girlfriend or potential bed buddy while your friends wonder how the hell you just pulled this girl.

8 She appears to be way out of your league, but somehow, you, this guy who knows nothing about women, just pulled the best looking girl in the bar. That would be great if that is how it worked with women wouldn't it? They come up to you and tell you exactly how they feel. Well that is exactly how it works. She tells you those things with her eyes, with her legs, with her arms, and with her body movements. She is sending out signals with her body language. When you catch a glance from across the room and she holds eye contact she is saying, I m attracted to you, I m avail-able, I want you to talk to me!

9 You can reassure that signal by dropping a little smile on her. If she smiles back she has just told you, "I am interested in you, come over here and talk to me so we can get to know each other." In face to face conversation, the words you say only account for ten percent of the total message. Thirty get in her mind , Get In Her Bed 4 percent is vocal, describing your tone of voice and inflec-tion. The rest of the message is nonverbal. Sixty per-cent of what you say is done through non verbal com-munication; body language. As hard as you try to hide your feelings towards a person, your body language will betray you and tell the world how you really feel.

10 Yes, it would be nice if that beautiful blonde across the room would approach you. In our society, that just doesn't happen. It's not socially acceptable for a woman to approach a man. Ultimately it is up to the guy to make the first move, but in reality a woman will have already given over a dozen signals before most guys make their first move. Women send out these signals to attract guys they are interested in, but are able to save face by avoiding public rejection. If a guy turns down her signal of advance, there was no harm done, she was not on public display.